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Relationship

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The complicated thing I have realized about relationships is that they are great for you and that they can help and hurt you.  Don't get me wrong everyone needs a good relationship with someone and we can not always choose who we are in relationships with like our family relationships, but when we can we should make good choices.  One thing I can say is that I did not always appreciate or value the relationships I had because they were on a surface level and when the time comes to really rely on each other the people tend to falter because the links were not that strong, to begin with.  I have learned that the more open the connections are, the more people tend to connect with each other because they feel comfortable with the people around them.  The truth is that it is hard to build a one-way relationship that lasts.  You have to decide to place effort into it like anything else.  I know a lot of bad links as well, and ...

The secret

The secret to happiness and prosperity is the way you think about what your situation is in life.  The book the secret that I read is different because it talks about the law of attraction which is difficult to discuss.  The way I feel is that I attracted lousy things in my life I and wanted an opportunity to fix that.  I did not realize how many ways I tend to think negative thoughts until I started reading this book.  It is a fascinating concept that relates the two most important ideas about thinking and the concepts of how our world changes because of our thinking.  I need to recreate my brain and thinking from scratch.  I feel like we are programmed to a disposition to be negative or expect the worst possible things.  Fighting this natural response requires energy and a clear mind.  I did not like having feelings because I felt they made me weak, but the opposite is true they provide insight into how you are thinking.  Damn the number of...