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When things go well

There are no systems for what each person has within themselves and the ability to create the system that we have. The most important idea for understanding that the people are capable of becoming something better and that when we succeed it is easy to feel good.  When things are going well, it is easy to see the world as excellent and not make mistakes.  When times are hard, it becomes the specific challenge indeed.  The truth is that when things go well, they do not last if we are not discovering who we are and creating better versions of ourselves.  That is the same reason someone who wins a lot of money does not keep it because they were not ready to receive that opportunity.  You do not have to have anything to be prepared for that thing to happen.  I can clearly see that I want to achieve something great and I m willing to do what it takes to get there.  I am no going through a significant period of my life on the outside of m...

Pespective Matters

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It is incredibly easy to see something as a roadblock in your life and just be shut down completely.  I had this happen recently with losing my apartment and job and having to reevaluate everything.  I know for a fact that I am definitely stuck in the loop of thinking negatively about this situation but that does not have to be the case.  I want to change my perspective and just take time to learn and grow that way my foundation is stronger.  One thing I can admit is that I never had a strong foundation I was living month to month on weak principles.  There is no structure in my life, and I need to grow to become better.  I thought to throw money at everything was a way to solve a problem, but it just stalled the problem until I ran out of money.  We have to deal with ourselves at some point in our lives and to do that we have to change our perspective.  I definitely can agree that this is a lower point in my life, but it has...

Most Times Dreamed

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If I had to be honest one thing I do is live inside my head a lot.  Most times I am off dreaming and believing in something grand and adventurous within my mind.  I am differently not grounded in reality most of the time.  I can apparently focus when I am with someone or talking to someone, but I do believe in something more significant most time.  I have already written my post about being stuck, but I definitely feel as though I want to change some things about my current situation.  I tend to watch many different videos regarding different motivational factors including the why do we fall video on youtube and I cry all the time because I like the rocky speech.  I know that I am worth a lot more than what I am currently presenting and it fucking sucks it terrible.  I do believe my dreams are placing me in a situation I can not escape that is filled with disappointment and frustration.  I can say that cha...