Relationship

The complicated thing I have realized about relationships is that they are great for you and that they can help and hurt you.  Don't get me wrong everyone needs a good relationship with someone and we can not always choose who we are in relationships with like our family relationships, but when we can we should make good choices.  One thing I can say is that I did not always appreciate or value the relationships I had because they were on a surface level and when the time comes to really rely on each other the people tend to falter because the links were not that strong, to begin with.  I have learned that the more open the connections are, the more people tend to connect with each other because they feel comfortable with the people around them.  The truth is that it is hard to build a one-way relationship that lasts.  You have to decide to place effort into it like anything else.  I know a lot of bad links as well, and sometimes you may not realize it but when you do it is time to get out and move on to something else because bad relationships can bring you down.  You can be doing well in life and the people surrounding you are bads then you become that as well.  After plenty of examples I see know that the people you surround yourself with are significant.  Creating an environment that requires that people be able to support each other and help each different build. The best relationships provide you with an insight into yourself that you can not necessarily see yourself.  Relationships are very complicated but we need them to grow into some else entirely, and that means making new connections as we build.  The key is understanding that people will change over time and our understanding of relationships change over time and something we see as toxic may be the reason we can not get to the next level.  So allow yourself the room to grow and spread out and become the change even if the people around are not.

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