What is tooday

The complicated thing I have realized about relationships is that they are great for you and that they can help and hurt you.  Don't get me wrong everyone needs a good relationship with someone and we can not always choose who we are in relationships with like our family relationships, but when we can we should make good choices.  One thing I can say is that I did not always appreciate or value the relationships I had because they were on a surface level and when the time comes to really rely on each other the people tend to falter because the links were not that strong, to begin with.  I have learned that the more open the connections are, the more people tend to connect with each other because they feel comfortable with the people around them.  The truth is that it is hard to build a one-way relationship that lasts.  You have to decide to place effort into it like anything else.  I know a lot of bad links as well, and ...

It is incredibly easy to see something as a roadblock in your life and just be shut down completely.  I had this happen recently with losing my apartment and job and having to reevaluate everything.  I know for a fact that I am definitely stuck in the loop of thinking negatively about this situation but that does not have to be the case.  I want to change my perspective and just take time to learn and grow that way my foundation is stronger.  One thing I can admit is that I never had a strong foundation I was living month to month on weak principles.  There is no structure in my life, and I need to grow to become better.  I thought to throw money at everything was a way to solve a problem, but it just stalled the problem until I ran out of money.  We have to deal with ourselves at some point in our lives and to do that we have to change our perspective.  I definitely can agree that this is a lower point in my life, but it has...